Saturday, July 30, 2011

How to stop being nervous around this guy I like?

I'm in 10th grade and I'm super shy when it comes to guys, like I've never had a boyfriend before, but I like this foreign exchange guy from Italy. He's super nice and funny and he's always flirting with me, He calls me his "Cioccolata Calda" which means hot chocolate. And I asked him if he had a girlfriend and now he keeps asking me when I'm going to be his new girlfriend. I want to go out with him, but I'm so nervous every time I see him. He said he finds it cute that I'm shy around him, but I want to flirt with him, not act like some 3rd grader. We almost kissed last week, and that just seemed to make me feel even more shy with him. What are some good ways to stop being so nervous when I see him?

Answer on How to stop being nervous around this guy I like?

It's all about confidence. Sure guys can find it cute when you're shy but they LOVE confident girls. First, you have got to love yourself for who you are. And if he flirts with you and asks you all these questions about when you're going to be his girlfriend chances are that he likes you back! So the 2nd step is to simply not be shy. Tell those butterflies in your stomach to fly away and let you have your moment. I hope you find this helpful. Good luck. (: