Wednesday, April 13, 2005

Who's better Michael Jackson or justin bieber at pop?

in my opinion Michael was way better by uncountable miles but i just want to know your opinions.

Answer on Who's better Michael Jackson or justin bieber at pop?

I hope this is some kind of sick joke.

Justin Bieber bows down to Michael Jackson.... A million times.

Is it weird that I've only known a guy for a few days but I have feelings for him?

Alright, so it started on the way home from school I met him, I then found out that he's practically my neighbour. I try to speak to him as often as I can on facebook but I don't want to seem as if I'm bothering him, He's also in the year above me and goes to a different school an knows loads of other girls......the problem is I have huge crush on him but don't know if he feels the same way about me

Answer on Is it weird that I've only known a guy for a few days but I have feelings for him?

Hi Carmen,

Is it weird that you have feelings for a guy you barely even know? Not at all weird... but just recognize that your feelings are based on your fantasy of him, and not based on reality.

Now... assuming that you're sweet & innocent and want to avoid a few common dating pitfalls, how about some free advice about guys and dating? OK.

How can you tell if a guy likes you? Depends on the guy. Some guys might try smiling, staring, being loud, showing off, or asking questions. Shy guys might be quiet, ignore you, act nervous, look at their feet when you're nearby, blush, or start stuttering. Players will use their smooth charms, keep good eye contact, and make you feel like princess (but players are a wolf in sheep’s clothing and should be avoided at all cost).

What do guys like in a girl? Well... that depends on the guy, his age, and his maturity level.

Typical young immature teenage guys:
1. Hot body
2. Cute face
3. Hot body
4. Willing to fall for their lines of crap
5. Hot body

Typical players and creeps:
1. Hot body
2. Dumb enough to fall for their lines of crap
3. Hot body
4. No Dad or big older brother to protect her
5. Hot body

Typical geeks:
1. Any reasonably attractive female who would be willing to date him

Typical mature & decent guys:
1. Nice personality (not too clingy, not too dramatic, not an airhead)
2. Nice body (hot would be good... but not required)
3. Cute face
4. Intelligent
5. Not a sl*t

Ironically, the jerks are usually the most fun and the best looking. Why? Because there are lots of foolish girls out there who have the following issues:
- No parental supervision
- Lack of a good Dad in their lives, so they readily accept the attention from jerks (because they crave male love and approval)
- Are gullible and easily lied to
- Allow guys to quickly become physical
- Give away their virginity based on the lies a jerk will whisper into her ears
- Don't mind getting treated like crap
- Often end up dumped and heartbroken
- Do not learn from their mistakes.

What are some hazards of dating? Here are a few -

1. Watch out for those handsome players or creeps who might pretend to like you, because you could easily fall for their phony attention and smooth lines of crap. Beware - they'll use your body and then dump you like a sack of potatoes.

2. Decide on your physical limits before you start dating, and stick to those limits. Getting too excited while being alone together with your date or your steady BF is not the time to start thinking about setting limits... your judgment will be clouded, and your BF's judgment will be long gone.

3. No matter what, don't date any older adult guys who pretend to be interested in you. They're even worse than players your own age... and like the players they'll only be interested in one thing... and it won't be your mind.

In order to protect your tender heart, it's a good idea to be cautious about the types of guys that you would be willing to date... and watch out how you behave, too. Why?
- Because lots of teenage guys tend to be frogs… not princes.
- Because teenage guys will typically want to go way past kissing if the girl allows it.
- Because many teenage girls are simply too vulnerable, too impulsive, and too emotional.
- Because lots of teenage girls frequently have poor judgment.
- Because teenage guys are typically only interested in what's in a young girl's panties.
- Because teenage guys often don't care about a girl's feelings.
- Because the types of teenage guys who are bold enough to be dating are frequently focused solely on satisfying their own selfish desires.
- Because teenage girls tend to equate love with kissing and sex (translation - they get their heart trampled), while most young guys don't (translation - they simply say "See ya later!").
- Because after the inevitable break-up, a teenage girl will likely feel as though her world has collapsed.
- Because any older guy who would date a young and vulnerable teenage girl is a creep.

Be advised that as time passes, your friends and classmates will probably be expecting you to follow whatever path they are traveling... even if it is a stupid path of dating jerks, making out with random guys, or casual sex. Be strong and resist that kind of peer pressure.

Don't make too many stupid decisions, don't date jerks, don't drink booze or take drugs, don't have friends who drink or take drugs, listen to your Mom and Dad, read the Bible (the Gospel of John is a good place to start), and then everything will turn out fine.

Final advice? Keep your panties on until you get married. That'll eliminate 99% of the creeps, losers, and players... and mistakes of passion... which will make your life much happier and simpler in the long run. You'll also be protected against pregnancy, STD's, and excessive heartache.

Those are a few things to think about, Carmen. Good luck!

Signed, PC