Friday, February 6, 2004

Men, is it ok that I sent him a Facebook message? 10 pts?

Hello, I'll try to keep this short but basically I'm wondering how you would feel if a girl you just met and spent the weekend making out with (and whom you really like) sought you out on Facebook and messaged you. I usually feel that's too eager and maybe even creepy however he goes to my college, we have mutual friends, and I needed to say something important to him that I wanted to "write out", you know....to be more articulate. I acknowledged in the message that it might be weird: "And yeah, I'm uncool for finding you on Facebook but it was all I could do to put it behind me and I wasn't going to call you." He hasn't responded yet and I sent it last night. I just really like him and so can't tell on my own if I'm being needy or not. The tone of the message was mostly chill and casual though. I know I'm over-analyzing but I trust you not to judge me and again I just really like him.

Answer on Men, is it ok that I sent him a Facebook message? 10 pts?

Most guys would love that. So no, there's nothing wrong with that at all