Wednesday, January 15, 2003

My older sister is poorly and wants me to go leave with her in Italy as it's also her only hope of her being

given a few days to see her daughter as the husband is firing for divorce and wants full custody of their daughter. She's considered to be an unfit mother and unless I go there she will never see her daughter again.What should I do? I am 23 in a relationship and my boyfriend of 6months wants us to get married. What should I do? Continue with my life or leave everthing to help my sister. Please help me as I don't know what to do.Thanks

Answer on My older sister is poorly and wants me to go leave with her in Italy as it's also her only hope of her being

Go and help your sister but do not give your own life up or her - that is not fair . Tell your sister you will come and see her and set a time limit - like you will see her for a week, two weeks etc. Don't let the time run over that. Don't finish with your boyfriend - you are young and have a life of your own. Not being funny, but would your sister give up everything to move country and come and be with you?