Tuesday, November 7, 1995

Aim 24,my height is5.4,my weight is 75,want to lose. can u give diet chart. or tips?

Answer on Aim 24,my height is5.4,my weight is 75,want to lose.can u give diet chart.or tips?

For god's sake i hope you mean 175, other wise go eat a cake! But if it is 175, i suggest limit eating fast food to once a day for a week, then every other day, then twice a week, then only once a week. If you make meals at your house they are likely to be much healthier for you . Also, exercise atleast a half hour a day. I cardio an hour a day everyday, but to start with atleast 3 times a week. Good Luck!

Risque photos for army boyfriend?

I'm 21 and a junior in college. Last fall I went on a couple of dates with a guy who is in the army. It wasn't super serious, and it never got physical, but the dates went well, and when he was deployed to Afghanistan I kept IMing and emailing him. Well the relationship has really progressed as we have gotten to know each other better. Obviously, with the long range distance it isn't SUPER serious at this point, but I'd definately consider myself his girlfriend at this point and it would feel wrong if I went on a date with someone else.

Last week he asked me to send him some nude photographs. He talked a lot about how lonely he is, how tough it is to put his life at risk every day then come back and be alone....how much he really likes me, etc etc. I'm really torn. I know that if he was here we would have had sex by now. Meanwhile, here is this guy in an incredibly dangerous position living a super hard life, and he's a guy I care about.....and I'd like to help him out so to speak. On the other hand, I don't know how I feel about sending naked pictures......especially to someone I haven't even slept with.

I do trust him (as much as you can trust anyone in the first few months of a relationship) so that isn't so much the point. But, still, this is a really tough decision for me. I took some pictures of myself, and in interesting poses (so it wasn't all slutty here I am in the mirror).....but I just don't know if I can/should actually send them to him.

Any perspective?

Answer on Risque photos for army boyfriend?

DO NOT SEND HIM NAKED PICTURES! I've seen this story before. Your guy may be different, but most likely not. Army boys get naked pictures of girls, and they share them! They pass them around! Even if they dont' want to, his battle buddies will steal them and look at them too. You also have no guarantees he isn't talking to another girl asking the same thing- sorry, but it happens.

He talks about how lonely he is- which is bullcrap! They are never alone (I've been there!). It is tough, but you are never alone. If you want a bunch of strangers seeing naked pics of you, send them. However, make sure you realize that once you send them, they are his property. He can post them publicly anywhere he wants, and there is nothing you can do about it.

Send him pictures, but not naked ones. If he keep asking, tell him you want to keep some mystery there, and when he gets back, he can see if firsthand.